GLOSSARY
This glossary is a collection of terms that has been put together to help define a vocabulary of understanding. It is also here as both a tool and reference to those who have been victims of digital abuse. When we become conscious of the words we ourselves use and the words that provide the context of another person's experience, we can shift the systems around us, open up new possibilities for understanding, and propel social change.
ABUSER
An individual who intentionally targets another individual with a bad purpose, cruelty or violence repeatedly
COERSION
Attempting to influence an individual mentally, physically, or emotionally through threats, punishment, and force
GASLIGHTING
Psychologically manipulating another individual into questioning their reality as well as inflicting doubt, distress, and distorted thought patterns
GENDER VIOLENCE
The violation of human rights and abuse through harmful acts directed at an individual based on their gender or sexual orientation
HARRASSMENT
LOVE BOMBING
Hostile conduct targeted at an individual that is persistent, irritating, and repetitive - with the intent to distress or discomfort
The act of indulging a new romantic partner with material gifts or affection in the interest of manipulating superior influence in the relationship
MANIPULATION
An attempt to sway an individual to act or feel a certain way
MISOGYNY
Hatred or contempt of women
NARCISSISM
Extreme self-involvement to the degree where an individual disregards the feelings of those around them. Narcissists also lack empathy towards the needs of others
PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE
The delibrate use of words and manipulation to cause harm to an individual by attacking competence and character. Verbal, mental, and emotional abuse are branches of psychological abuse
RAPE
Unlawful sexual intercourse - including penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth or sexual activities made without consent. Considered a form of sexual assault
SEXUAL ASSAULT
Intentional, sexual behavior that occurs without explicit consent of an individual
SEXTORTION
A threat to blackmail or distribute private and sensitive material of you if sexual content and imagery are not submitted
SOLICITATION
Requesting, encouraging, and demanding personal services or offering an individual's services for prostitution
STALKER
An individual who harasses another with unwanted attention consistently. For example, someone that frequents another individual's space with predatory, obsessive actions.
VICTIM BLAMING
Holding an individual at fault (either wholly or partially) for the crimes or abuse that have been committed against them
CYBER MOB
A group of abusers attacking an individual with the intent to collectively carry out a campaign of online harassment. Examples include, but are not limited to shaming, hate speech, threats, slurs, and insults
CYBER STALKING
A use of the internet and other electronic mediums to harass, frighten or stalk an individual online. These can take the forms of emails, text, social media posts, and threatening emails
CYBERMISOGYNY
Various forms of gendered hatred, harassment, and abusive behavior targeted at women and girls through the internet that occur within a context of power and marginalization. Examples of this include, but are not limited to: revenge porn, cyberstalking, gender-based online hate speech, and non-consensual distribution of intimate content
DEEPFAKE
The use of technology and algorithms to create sham images and videos for revenge porn, fraud scams, political propaganda, and fake news online
DIGITAL ABUSE
A use of electronics and technologies to harass, stalk or intimidate an individual. This is considered a form of verbal and emotional abuse via digital/online methods such as texting or social media
DIGITAL DATING ABUSE (DDA)
Repeated behavior on digital media (internet and cell phones) that intends to control, monitor, threaten, harass, or pressure a dating partner. Examples include, but are not limited to monitoring activities and whereabouts, controlling friendships, name-calling, threats, and pressuring sex
DOXXING
The intent to expose identifying and personal information about another individual online. Examples include, but are not limited to the following: full name, home address, workplace, phone, financial, and other personal information that circulates to the public without the victim's permission or knowledge. Additional forms many include: SSN, financial and banking card information, private correspondence, criminal history, personal photos, and embarrassing personal details
ELECTRONIC AGGRESSION (CYBERBULLYING)
Harassment or bullying committed through emails, chat rooms, DMs, websites, blogs, texts, video, pictures posted on websites or sent by phone
FLAMING
The act of engaging in an online argument through posting offensive messages, unfounded personal attacks, and insults by one or more parties
HACKING
An attempt to exploit a computer system or private network with unauthorized access for illicit purposes
IDENTITY THEFT
An unlawful possession and use of another's personal data for fraud or deception
IDENTITY FRAUD
The act of using stolen personal information for illicit gain. Often economic, examples include but are not limited to: credit card fraud, employment or tax-related fraud, phone or utility fraud
ONLINE DISINHIBITION EFFECT
Uninhibited online communication with others compared to in-person interactions influenced by factors of online disinhibition, including but not limited to anonymity, asynchronous communication, empathy deficit
REVENGE PORN
A form of revenge or harassment: The act of sharing and posting explicit and sexual images or videos online without the individual's consent in those images
SEXUAL VIOLATION (DIGITAL)
The act of using technology to engage in harassing or non-consensual sexual interactions. Examples include but are not limited to: utilizing social media, online forums, gaming sites, digital communications, and dating apps to reach victims & leveraging digital photos or videos and sexually explicit language against them
TROLLING
Internet slang for those who intentionally try to instigate conflict, hostility, or arguments by using inflammatory messages to provoke emotional responses out of people in an online community and platform. This form of verbal harrassment is often in the comment sections of YouTube, forums, or chat rooms disrupting civil discussion
FELONY
A criminal offense resulting in a prison sentence. Examples include but are not limited to acts harmful and dangerous to society, such as arson, first-degree murder, rape, and burglary
INTENT TO HARM
An individual's purposeful decision and conscious desire to cause suffering onto another individual without legal justification
INTENT STANDARD
The act of proving a perpetrator's discriminatory "intent" to the Supreme Court
MISDEMEANOR
A committed criminal offense sentenced to less than a year of jail term or pardoned through community service. Examples include but are not limited to possession of drugs, trespassing, prostitution, and vandalism
OFFENDER
A individual convicted of a crime or offense
REPEAT OFFENDER
An individual who has committed the same crime more than once
RESTRAINING ORDER
Issued to stop someone from performing an action (are temporary/shorter in length)
ORDER OF PROTECTION
Issued to stop someone causing you verbal, emotional or physical harm (are longer terms)
AFFIRMATIONS
Statements designed to create inspiration, self-change focused attention on goals with the intent for self-advocacy, strength, and motivation
PERSONAL BOUNDARIES
Limits and rules we set for the self within all relationships
GRIEF
An emotional response of deep pain or sorrow
MINDFULNESS
The ability to exist presently in a moment through conscious awareness
SAFETY
Freedom and protection from danger or harm
SELF SOOTHING
The act of comforting yourself when triggered or experienced with distress
ADD
Attention Deficit Disorder - developmental disorder defined by chronic inattention and restlessness
ADHD
Attention Hyperactive Disorder - difficulty managing attention illustrated by hyperactivity and impulsiveness
ANXIETY
Excessive distress and persistent worry about every day activities
DEPRESSION
Persistent misery or sadness expressed in the loss of interest for activities and seclusion causing considerable impairment in daily life
OCD
Obsessive Compulsice Disorder. Excessive thoughts and fears leading to compulsive physical behaviors and repetitive habits
PANIC ATTACK
Disabilitating fear
PANIC DISORDER
Sudden attacks of panic or fear
PTSD
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder: A psychiatric disorder that occurs in a person after experiencing a traumatic event such as natural disaster, serious accident, terrorist attack, war/combat, or rape
SCHIZOPHRENIA
Uncertainty of reality within a person's behavior, thought or emotion
SUICIDAL IDEATION
Often called suicidal thoughts or ideas that consist of death, wanting to take one's life, or thinking about suicide
CONSENT
An agreement made by mutual participants to engage in an activity that is clearly communicated, understood, informed, and therefore voluntary
CONSENSUAL VS. NON-CONSENSUAL (SEX)
Consensual: When all parties are in agreement and with consent and permission – all parties are in agreement that they approve
Non-Consensual: When one engages in activities with someone(s) who did not want to engage in sexual relations or did not agree – withour permission, with coercion
DATING VIOLENCE
A subcategory of domestic violence and intimate partner violence. Abusive behavior committed by one or both partners of a romantic relationship. Examples include but are not limited to psychological, verbal, and emotional, sexual violence, physical assaults, stalking, and cyber dating abuse
DOMESTIC ASSAULT
A violent or aggressive act that causes physical injury between family or household members
GENDER DYNAMICS
Interactions or relationships influenced by socio-cultural ideas on gender that create a power dynamic within the relationship that reinforces or challenges existing norms
INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE
Abuse or aggression committed in a romantic relationship. Behavior can range from one episode to chronic and severe episodes over time. Examples include but are not limited to physical and sexual violence, stalking, and psychological harm by the former or current partner or spouse
INTIMATE PARTNER STALKING
A current or former partner consistently directing unwanted contact or conduct at the other partner, therefore causing the victim fear and distress
PHYSICAL ABUSE
Act where an individual intentionally uses their body to inflict harm or injury upon the other individual. Examples include but are not limited to slapping, hair pulling, spitting, pressuring, threats, punching, kicking, suffocating, shaking, biting.
POWER IMBALANCE
Unequal distribution of power and control between partners or individuals that often create mistrust, abuse, and other problematic behaviors in a relationship
SEXTING
The act of sending sexual text messages (via phone or other messaging services)
COOKIES
Formally known as an HTTP cookie, web cookie, internet cookie, or browser cookie - small packets of data sent from a web server to a user's browser to retain personal information about the user even after this user has left the website
COMPUTER MONITORING SOFTWARE (SPYWARE)
Malicious software installed on a computer device without the user's knowledge that invades and steals sensitive information and internet usage data that then relays this data to firms or other external users or advertisers
CRYPOTOGRAPHY
The study and skillset of coding: translating and writing of technical communications and messaging
EMAIL FARMING
The act of collecting email addresses for the purpose of email spam - also referred to as scraping or email harvesting
ENCRYPTION
The act of creating code from plaintext: transmitting information into a ciphertext for privilege access and to prevent unauthorized access
DATA
Information (terms, facts, and statistics) expressed numerically or categorically collected for reasoning and inference
DIGITAL BEHAVIORS
Behavior committed on the internet
DIGITAL MEDIA
Digital content transmitted through the internet or computer networks, including text, video, audio, graphics, + news, television, printed newspaper and magazine for the purpose of offering online distribution through a website or blog, article and social media
DIGITAL MEMORY
A device to store data or programs temporarily or permanently for immediate use in computers - referred to as digital storage space or computer memory
SOCIAL MEDIA
Collective term for websites and mobile applications as the means of communication, community-based input, content-sharing, and collaboration among people in virtual communities and networks (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Youtube)